DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER 23 years of marriage, my partner has decided she doesn’t love me anymore.
I am 43 years old, my partner is 41 years old.
We’ve had our ups and downs, but last week she said she still loves me, but isn’t “in love” anymore.
She worked away for several months, only coming home for the weekend, which gave her time to think about us.
Now she’s wondering if she can find the spark between us again.
What should I do?
I cannot imagine my life without her.
But at the same time, I can’t keep walking on eggshells or waiting forever for her to make a decision.
I’ve been feeling so depressed since she told me she didn’t love me anymore.
DEIDRA SAYS: I know you’re feeling overwhelmed by this revelation, but tell her that you love her and want to give your relationship a try.
Look at your work patterns as her work away from home is clearly straining your relationship.
It’s crucial to make a real effort to spend quality time together at least a couple of times a week.
Hopefully the My Relationship MOT support package will help you start the conversation.
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